Social networks, blogs, various chats and forums have long and firmly entered the life of a modern person. Communication is increasingly becoming virtual. Whether this is good or bad, scientists cannot give a definite answer.
Why display positive status?
Behind the mask of anonymity, it can be difficult to know the mood. And now the user writes a positive status - about life, about love, about nature. It immediately becomes clear that this is a joyful and friendly person.
However, many do not realize the whole deep meaning of writing statuses. After all, these are just a few lines, often borrowed from great writers. And a simple greeting seems more appropriate.
But what do we do when we welcome guests? Of course we smile. We say words of greeting and compliments. And a page on a social network, a blog or a personal website is actually the same house, only virtual. Feel free to put your positive statuses on the main page to cheer up.
How to formulate a positive life status?
Andhere is the decision. You are no longer hiding behind a mask, ready to show the world your positive status. However, the problem arises - what to write? Or maybe you should get by with a picture?
The easiest way is to use lists of quotes from famous figures of culture and art. The work of many of them is widely known. If you love to read, then choosing a positive status from any literary work is not difficult.
But if you want to show individuality, eccentricity of your personality and the richness of the inner world, then you should come up with a phrase yourself. This is not as difficult to do as it might seem at first glance. Remember the happiest moment of your life and just describe it in words.
Pictures of smiling people complement the positive status words perfectly. Personal photos, drawings, graffiti - cheerful faces will give strength to good words. In addition, adorable animals and beautiful views of nature are always appropriate.
Will it help?
Pragmatic users doubt the expediency of setting any status. After all, the benefit of a virtual positive can neither be measured nor felt. The question then arises as to whether a couple of hopeful lines will change anything.
Skeptics can doubt all they want. Romantics know for sure that there will be positive changes. Leaving a few joyful lines or a nice picture on your virtual page, you create a “circle of joy”. It is difficult to measure it financially. It exists by itselfhimself and sooner or later returns to the creator.
Filling your life with positive, you fill it with the world around you. It is impossible to keep joy only for yourself. She wants to share - and this wonderful desire must certainly come true.
How does it work? Everything is very simple - someone sad comes to someone else's page and sees a little positive. The mood improves, the world no longer seems so dull. And now a person is already doing something pleasant for another. So along the chain, sooner or later, joy will return to the one who wrote that life is beautiful.
How to respond to snarky remarks?
The Internet is full of not only romantics and positive people. Many may not understand the joyful mood. Unfortunately, it also happens that people understand everything perfectly, but act out of spite. Start writing scathing comments in response to the positive status.
How to respond to such strange and ridiculous behavior? There are several nuances here. First of all, it is worth finding out the degree of closeness of the commentator. If this is a close friend, colleague, relative, then you should ask about internal motives. The person may be confused or depressed.
The easiest way to ignore an outside sarcastic commentator is to delete the comment. It is not necessary to enter into a discussion and explain anything. The main rule of the World Wide Web is “don’t feed the troll.”
Enjoy every day, write positive statuses, fill the world with happiness. And it will definitely come back to you!
